Tag: adoption

The Magic of a Calming Corner: Helping Kids Handle Big Emotions

Before our adopted daughter came to live with us as a foster child in 2019, we prepared in all the ways we knew how....

Trauma and the Holidays

The holidays are my favorite time of the year! My home is decorated and everyone is jolly and excited for Thanksgiving and Christmas! Everyone...

A Letter to My Daughter’s Birth Mother on Mother’s Day

I see you in her smile. I see you in her eyes. I see you in her determination and strong will. I hear you in her laughter. You...

My Child has RAD. Here’s What You Don’t See.

"Charming. Angelic. Sweet. Charismatic." These are the adjectives I typically hear after people meet my adopted daughter. At home, though, you would see a different picture. If I...

Just Write the Letter

In the wise words of Cody Johnson: "If you got a chance, take it, take it while you got a chance If you got a dream,...

When Are You Having A Baby?

It's the question that every young married couple hates to hear, "When are you two going to have a baby?" My husband and I...

5 Things Adoptive Parents Want You to Know

As an adoptive parent, I get asked a lot of questions. Questions about my kids and their birth parents, questions about how we came...

Everything You Need to Know About Stepparent Adoption

November is more than just fall weather and Thanksgiving, it is National Adoption Month! As a family law attorney, one of my favorite types of...

Adoption Changed my Life for the Better

I recently posted one of those Instagram challenges "8 Things You Probably Didn't Know About Me" - and posted that I never had a...

Time to Say Goodbye {An Adoption Story}

When we got the phone call we had been matched for adoption for a little boy who would be born in about 3 weeks,...

Juneteenth: A White Mom’s Primer

I want to tell you about my daughter. She is a teenager now - stunningly gorgeous, and more woman than child. She is kind...

An Open Letter to Juvenile Deprived Judges

Dear Juvenile Deprived Judge,  You see hundreds, if not thousands, of kids come through your courtroom each year, all with their own stories to tell....